Selected and Translated by Ikram Hawramani
Copyright © 2017 Ikram Hawramani
A Brief Primer on Ibn al-Jawzi
Abū l-Faraj ʿAbd al-Raḥmān Ibn al-Jawzī (1116 – 1201 CE) was a major historian, hadith scholar, jurist and popular preacher in medieval Baghdad. He is said to have written over a hundred works (some mention as many as 400). Hundreds of thousands of people used to attend his sermons, including the Abbasid caliph and the caliph’s mother. At the height of his fame visitors to Baghdad used to stay in the city until they could attend one of his sermons, considering it an essential part of any visit to the capital of the Islamic empire.
Ibn al-Jawzī is best known to scholars for his 19-volume history of the medieval world, al-Muntaẓam fī Tārīkh al-Umam wa-l-Mulūk (The Well-Ordered History of Kings and Nations), which continues to be used today as one of the primary sources for medieval Islamic history. Among non-scholars, however, he is best known for his Ṣayd al-Khāṭir (Quarry of the Mind), in which he summarizes his lifetime’s teachings through short reminders, words of advice, and the sayings of al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī, Sufyān al-Thawrī, Bishr al-Ḥāfī and other early Islamic ascetics and mystics of the 8th and 9th centuries of the common era. Ibn al-Jawzī also took upon himself the difficult task of reviewing and summarizing al-Ghazāli’s monumental masterpiece ʿIḥyāʾ ʿUlūm al-Dīn (Revival of the Religious Sciences), a work he titled Minhāj al-Qāṣidīn (Curriculum of the Intenders).
The present book is a collection of his most inspiring and beneficial sayings selected from the Quarry of the Mind as well as others of his works. Included are also the sayings of the earlier ascetics that he quotes. These sayings have been chosen for their timeless value and their relevance to the experiences and challenges faced by modern Muslims. They are a great motivator and guide for anyone wishing to purify their heart and increase their love and dedication toward the Creator.
The present edition has been improved with many corrections, better footnotes and the addition of Encyclopedia of Islam-style transliteration of Arabic words and names.
Ibn al-Jawzī should not be confused with another famous scholar: Ibn Qayyim al-Jawzīya (1292 – 1350 CE).
A Beautiful Path to God
Instructive and Inspirational Sayings of Ibn al-Jawzi
1
Glory to the Great King who is feared by anyone who knows Him, and Who, whenever someone feels secure from His ability to plan against him has not known Him. I thought about an important matter; that He, glory to Him, grants respite until it appears that He neglects, so that one sees the hands of doers of evil unrestrained as if there is nothing to stop them. When their evil deeds accumulate to a certain degree and they do not take heed, He fiercely seizes them and vanquishes them.
2
There is not in this worldly life or the hereafter a life better than the life of those who know God, glory to Him, for the knower of God stays in His presence when he is alone, and if a blessing comes into his life, he knows from Whom it comes, and if he experiences something that would have been bitter, it tastes sweet in his mouth because of his knowledge of the One who sent it as a test.
3
If pain encompasses a knower of God, he turns away from the apparent cause of it, and will not see other than its Sender. He is in the best of living with Him: When he is silent, he thinks of carrying out what is due to Him, when he speaks, he speaks that which pleases Him. His heart does not attach itself to a wife or child, and does not needily cling to the love of anyone. His body interacts with people, but his soul is with its Master.
4
The knower of God has no worry in the worldly life, no sadness at the time of departure from it, no apprehension of being abandoned in the grave, and there is no fear upon him on the Day of Judgment.
5
Those who have no knowledge of God continuously stumble and cry out due to their afflictions, because they do not know the One who is afflicting them. They feel forlorn when they miss out on what they wish for, because they don’t know the wisdom in it. They seek assistance in their own like [i.e. other people], because there is no familiarity between them and their Lord. They fear departure, because they have not prepared provisions for it, and they have no knowledge of the way.
6
Do you know what a man is? A man is the one who, if he in private has access to what is forbidden to him, and he is capable of engaging in it, he falters in his thirst for it, views it with an eye of truth, and in this way becomes too bashful to direct his intention toward what He dislikes, so that his thirst goes away.
7
If the wisdom behind certain things escapes you, it is due to the weakness of your understanding. All kings have their secrets. Who are you, in your feebleness, to think you can understand the wisdom behind all of His decisions?
8
Striving against the ego is a peculiar thing, for it requires unusual policies. Some nations allowed the ego to engage in whatever it desired, without restraint, and that caused them to fall into what they disliked. And some nations went to extremes in their effort to oppose it, so that they forbade what is its due, and in this way they transgressed against it. Of them are those who did not properly satisfy its need for food, and in this way their bodies became too weak to carry out their duties.
9
I have seen that the choicest of people have understood the meaning of existence, so that they are busy with the loading of provisions [for the life after death], and with preparations for departure.
10
The most beneficial toward me [among the scholars] have been those who acted by their knowledge, even if they were less knowledgeable than others.
11
I met the sheikh Abū Manṣūr al-Jawālīqī[1]. He was a man of few words, careful in what he said, doing his best at what he did, researching and analyzing. Sometimes he would be asked a question with an obvious answer which some of his students would eagerly answer, but he himself would wait to carefully think until he was sure of the matter. He would fast much and speak little. I greatly benefitted from observing these two men[2], more than I benefitted from others, and from this I understood that guidance by example is more likely to guide a person’s heart than guidance through speech.
12
I have seen scholars who would spend their time with others in amusement and laughter, so that they left people’s hearts, and their indulgence caused their knowledge to disperse, so that few benefited from it in their lifetimes, and after their deaths their names were forgotten, so that almost no one looks into their books today.
13
The truly destitute person is the one who spends his life in acquiring knowledge that he does not act by, so that both the pleasures of this world and the rewards of the next world pass him by, and he ends up as a bankrupt person, due to the greatness of the negative evidence against him.[3]
14
Perhaps the reason why someone is punished [through hardship] is hidden from people, so that people ask, “That person is a person of goodness, why did that happen to him?” But qadar [God’s decree] says, “It is a punishment for private sins whose recompense has become public.”
15
[Speaking of whether seeking knowledge, or dedicating oneself to worship and remembrance of God and the afterlife is preferable]: The correct and proper thing is to dedicate oneself to knowledge, while continuously stinging the ego with those things that soften and humble the heart, but not so much that it takes away from one’s ability to busy oneself with knowledge. I do not like, for myself, due to the weakness and softness of my heart, to visit graveyards, or visit those who are dying, because that affects my thinking and takes me out of the sphere of those who are busy with knowledge to the sphere of thinking about death, and for a while I do not do anything beneficial with myself in that state.The final word on this is that a disease should be resisted using that which opposes it. Whoever has an extremely hard heart, and whose piety and fear of God is not sufficient to prevent him from sinning, then that is corrected by the remembrance of death and staying by the bedside of the dying. But as for the one whose heart is already soft, then the state of his heart is sufficient for him, and he even ought to do that which causes him to forget [death and similar things] so that he may benefit from his life, and so that he can understand the rulings he gives.
16
Have you not seen the condition of those who act with too much license in acquiring wealth in one way,[4] only to have their wealth taken away from them in another way? Perhaps an illness will befall the head of the household, or someone else in it, so that many times more will be spent for its sake than was ever acquired through that license. While a God-fearing person would have enjoyed safety and protection from such an affliction.
17
Certain people have distinguished themselves by seeking the path of leisure and claiming that they rely on God, saying, “We do not hold onto any possessions, and we do not prepare provisions for our journeys, because the body’s sustenance will come [through God].” This is opposite to Islamic principles, for the Prophet, peace be upon him, forbade throwing away wealth, and Musa, peace be upon him, prepared provisions before setting out to meet al-Khiḍr,[5] and our Prophet, peace be upon him, prepared provisions before going on his hijra. And regarding this matter, this saying of God, glory to Him, has reached us, “And prepare provisions for yourself, and the best of provisions is the fear of God.”[6]
18
Know that the best of matters is to be moderate in all things. If we see that attachment to the worldly life has overcome someone and has corrupted their deeds, we will ask them to remember death, their reception after death, and the afterlife. As for a scholar from whom the thought of death does not depart, and words are spoken to him, or by him, regarding the afterlife, then his remembrance of death, beyond these, will have no benefit except for sapping him of energy.
It is more fitting for this scholar, who strongly fears God, glory to Him, and who performs much remembrance of the afterlife, to busy himself with things that would take his thoughts away from death, so that a little of his attachment to the worldly life may return, so that he has the motivation to write, do good deeds, and to be able to work toward raising a family.
19
If you have the ability to pass all of the scholars and the ascetics by, then do so, for they were humans, and you are a human, and no one sits content with their current condition except due to the baseness of their resolve and determination.
20
We have seen among the Sufis and scholars those who cheat the rulers in order to get what they have. Among them are those who flatter them or try to impress them with their virtue and knowledge, and among them are those who praise them in ways that are forbidden, and among them are those who stay silent regarding evil deeds the rulers do, and beyond these of flattery and servility. The reason for these is their poverty and need.[7]
21
I have seen that greed toward worldly gains causes people to lose the thing they are greedily seeking. We have seen one who greedily sought to accumulate wealth, and acquired it, but continued to eagerly seek more. If they had comprehended, they would have known that the purpose of wealth is to spend it on life. If one spends life in greedily acquiring it, they lose both their life and their wealth.
22
The good scent of a good and wholesome private life may last after one’s death. There are those who have a good remembrance among the people after their death then are forgotten. And there are those who are remembered for a hundred years, after which their remembrance and their graves disappear. And among them there are stars whose remembrance lasts forever.
23
There are those who venerate the creation, so that they do not respect their private time in the presence of God. By the amount that they engage in private sins, and by the degree of their sins, a bad scent spreads from them, so that hearts begin to dislike them. If their crimes are small, then there will be little of good remembrance toward them, but only praise.[8] And if their private sins are great [even though they have virtuous outward appearances and great intellectual achievements], people will be silent about them, neither praising them nor criticizing them.
24
Abū al-Dardāʾ[9], may God be pleased with him, says, “When the servant disobeys God, glory to Him, in private, God will cause the believers to dislike him in ways he does not sense.”
25
There are those who were so overcome by remembrance of the afterlife, and by their disdain for the worldly life, that they buried the books of knowledge they had. This deed in my opinion is a great mistake even if it is said that certain respected characters in Islamic history have done it. […] The action of Aḥmad bin Abī al-Ḥawārī and Ibn Asbāṭ[10] in washing their books is utter extremism.[11]
26
A matter constricted my heart and caused me great and constant sadness and gloom. I started to think much about finding a solution for my problem using any and all means, but I could not find any escape. Then I came upon this verse, “Whosoever fears God, He will create for him a way out”[12], and I knew that the fear of God is the means of escaping my troubles. I reapplied myself at realizing true fear of God in my heart, and soon I found the way out from the thing that was troubling me.
27
One who fears God should know that God, glory to Him, is sufficient. He must not attach his heart to worldly means, for He says, glory to Him, “Whosoever relies on God, He is sufficient for him.”[13]
28
Be cautious of sins, for their consequences are evil. How many sins there are whose perpetrator is still falling and stumbling, while suffering poverty and lamenting the worldly pleasures they have been denied?
29
Mend what is between you and God in private, and He will mend for you your public matters. Do not be deceived by His covering of your sins, for perhaps He will eventually make them public, and do not be deceived by the respite He grants you, for perhaps His punishment may come at you suddenly when you do not expect it.
30
O sinner! If you start to suffer punishment, do not make a clamor about it and say, “I have repented and regret my actions, so why is my punishment not going away?”, for perhaps your repentance has not come true yet.
31
If you feel too weak to bear His test, ask for His help, and if the calamity He has chosen for you pains you greatly, you are between His hands, so do not lose hope of His mercy.
32
The ship of your lifetime is approaching the coast of the graveyard. What is the matter with you that you are busy inside the ship trying to acquire goods?
33
One day I had the power to acquire something I desired with all of my heart, and there was nothing in my way to prevent me from getting it, except my fear of God.
The appearance of the matter was that it was a forbidden thing,[14] so that I was uncertain what to do, until I decided to refuse my ego this thing that it desired so much.
[…] I told myself, how many times have you done what your ego desired, only for its pleasure to depart and your regret on having done it remain? […] This was in the year 561 [AH]. When I entered into the year 565, God gave me something in replacement for that which was far superior to it, something in which there was no doubt of its wholesomeness and permissibility. I said to myself, this is God’s reward, glory to Him, for abandoning something for His sake.34
How many have we seen who gave precedence to their ego’s desires, so that this took their faith away from them?
35
If a scholar’s intention is pure, he will not take upon himself what is not his due. Many scholars are afraid of saying “I don’t know”, so that they give rulings in order to preserve their status in people’s eyes, so that they would not say they are not knowledgeable enough to give an answer, even if they are not sure of their rulings. The ultimate result of this is disgrace.
It is narrated from Mālik ibn Anas[15] that a man asked him a question, and he answered, “I don’t know”. The man said, “I have travelled countries in order to reach you!” He replied: “Go back to your country and say that you asked Malik and he said he didn’t know the answer.”
36
Do you not know that the worldly life is a place of testing and trials? If you only seek what you desire, and are not patient on what goes against your desires, then how can you pass your tests? Is not the meaning of a test that which goes against your wishes and desires?
37
It is said that Dawūd al-Ṭā’ī[16] used to leave water underground in a cask and would drink from it while it was very hot.[17] He said to Sufyān[18]: “If you eat of what is delicious and desirable, and drink cold and chilled water, then when will you love death and the thought of going to God?”
This is from ignorance of goals and priorities, because drinking hot water can cause illnesses in the body and does not quench thirst, and God does not command us to torment ourselves in this way. It is in fact against what He calls for, and it is of what He forbids. […]
If Dawūd, may God have mercy on him, had understood that providing proper feed for one’s ride is necessary for traveling the path, he would not have done that. Do you not know that Sufyān al- Thawrī, despite his great knowledge and fear of God, used to eat of tasty foods? He used to say, “If an animal is not treated well, it will not carry out its duties.”
Perhaps some will hear my words and say that this is against asceticism. What I say is one should be with the great scholars. Look into the path of al-Ḥasan [al-Baṣri], Sufyān [al-Thawrī], Mālik [ibn Anas], Abū Hanīfa, Aḥmad [ibn Ḥanbal] and al-Shafiʿī, they represent the foundations of Islam, and do not copy your religion from those whose knowledge is little, even if their asceticism is great.
38
Be glad if you sense a darkness in your heart after [sinning], for if there was no light in your heart, you would not be able to sense the darkness.
39
Whoever reflects on the condition of the Prophet, peace be upon him, sees a complete creation, who gave to everything what was due to it. He would joke, laugh, play with children, listen to poetry, … he would spend intimate time with women, eat what he could of what was available, even if it was something tasty like honey, he would drink chilled water, and he would allow people to lay down carpets for him in the shade to sit on, and he did not oppose any of these things. No one has heard of him any of that which the ignorant among the Sufis and hermits say of utterly prohibiting all pleasures on the soul. …
As for eating barley bread, reducing portions, drying out the body, and giving up all that it desires, these things are torment for the self, and a destruction of the body, which are not justified by reason, and are not praiseworthy according to Islamic principles.
The Prophet, peace be upon him, also used to give worship its due by staying up at night to pray and striving in performing remembrance. Follow his way, which is the best and most complete way, and his principles and laws, in which there are no faults, and do not cling to the words of this or that ascetic, but give their words and behaviors the best possible interpretation, and find excuses for them where you can.
40
Hermits [ascetics who seclude themselves from society] are like bats. They have buried themselves, through isolating themselves, from benefiting the people. Isolation is a good thing if it does not prevent good deeds like communal prayer, partaking in the burial ceremony of the dead, and visiting the sick. But hermitship is the state of the cowards. As for the brave, they learn and they teach, and this is the status of the prophets, peace be upon them.
41
I saw a man called Ḥusayn al-Qazwīnī at al-Manṣūr mosque who would constantly walk throughout the mosque. I asked why he did that, and I was told he did it so that he would not fall sleep [thinking it an act of worship to give up the pleasure of sleep]. Such deeds are foolish deeds caused by having little knowledge, for if the nafs [self or ego] does not get its share of sleep, the mind becomes confused, and the purpose of worship will be lost due to the inability to think and comprehend.
42
When I realized that time is the most valuable commodity, and that it is a duty to seize it through the carrying out of good deeds, I started to dislike mingling with people for pleasure and spending time in unproductive conversation.
[…] I prepared certain actions that would prevent my time from being wasted when people [inevitably] visited me. Among such actions were cutting paper, sharpening pencils and binding notebooks, for such actions have to be done, and they do not require deep thought or the presence of the heart, so I had them in store for when people visited, so that none of my time would go to waste.43
I have seen that many people do not know the value of life. Among them are some who have been given so much wealth that they do not need to seek income, yet they spend much of the day sitting at the market looking at people, and how many harmful and evil things must pass before them! And among them are those who isolate themselves and play chess. And there are those who waste time through reciting stories of the kings and rulers, or talking about things being cheap or expensive. I learned that God does not show the value of life and realization of the worth of time except to those to whom He gives His blessing and inspires them toward benefiting from it.
44
Sufyān al-Thawrī said, “Whoever reaches the age of the Prophet [63 years of age], peace be upon him, then let him acquire a burial shroud for himself.”
45
It was said to Ibn al-Mubārak[19], “Why do you not come sit in our gatherings?” He said, “I like to sit with the Companions and the Tābiʿūn[20]“. By this he meant that he preferred to read the books he had.
46
Whoever spends the time of his youth in seeking knowledge, then in his old age he will gratefully treasure the harvest of what he has planted, and he will take pleasure in writing down what he has gathered.
47
I reflected upon myself and those of my extended family who spent their lives in acquiring wealth while I spent my childhood and youth seeking knowledge, and I saw that I have not been deprived of anything they have acquired.
48
In the sweetness of seeking knowledge, I used to suffer hardships that were sweeter than honey to me, due to the greatness of what I was seeking. In my childhood I used to take with me loaves of dry bread and go out seeking hadith.[21] I would sit by the banks of the ʿIsa river[22], for I could not eat the bread except by the water.[23] Whenever I took a bite, I would drink some water after it. Meanwhile, my eagerness for knowledge would make me only experience the taste of acquiring knowledge while going through this.
The fruit of that was that I gained renown for the amount of hadith that I had heard regarding the Prophet’s biography, peace be upon him, his manners, and the lives of his Companions and those who came after him. …
I realized that He had raised me since I was little, for my father died when I was too little to comprehend things, and my mother did not give me much attention, so that the love of knowledge was implanted in my nature from an early age. … He supported me and gave me insight, protected me, and bestowed upon me.
49
By the amount that you yourself benefit from the knowledge you have will others benefit by your knowledge.
50
Whenever a human acquires what he desires, he grows tired of it and desires something else.
51
When I see someone who is greatly motivated at seeking an area of knowledge and has reached the height of accomplishment in it, I see that he is deficient in other areas of knowledge, such as a scholar of hadith who has little knowledge of fiqh [jurisprudence], or a scholar of fiqh who has little knowledge of hadith. I do not see being content with limited knowledge except as a deficiency in one’s motivation and love for knowledge.
52
I seek to reach the ultimate of what can be reached of turning knowledge into action, so that I aspire to the fear of God that Bishr[24] had and the asceticism of Maʿrūf[25]. Achieving these things, along with [what I do of] the reading of books, teaching people and mingling with them, is unlikely.
I also seek to be needless of people, and wish to have a better material status than them. But busying oneself with knowledge prevents acquiring wealth, and accepting the charity of others is against dignity and self-respect.
I aspire to have children, the same way I aspire to write books, so that both of these act as my successors after my death. And the seeking of children has nothing to do with the business of the heart which loves seclusion.
I also seek pleasure through women, although the lack of wealth prevents acquiring it, and if the pleasure is acquired, it reduces motivation [for seeking other worthy things]. I also seek what is good for my body of food and drink, so that it is used to gentle and indulgent treatment, but the lack of wealth prevents this.
And in all of these things is the combining of opposites.
Compare my condition to those whose ultimate goal is the worldly life. I do not like that the acquisition of anything of the worldly life should taint my faith in any way, and I do not like that it should affect my knowledge nor my deeds.
How anxious I am to perform qiyām [to stay up at night for worship before going to bed] and to achieve true fear of God, while also refreshing my knowledge, and busying the mind and heart with writing, and with acquiring food that is fit for the body!
How sorrowful I become when I miss the opportunity to speak with God in private due to the meeting and informing of people!
How much the fear of God fades when one has to seek what a family cannot do without![26]
53
Whoever wants to know what indulging the self [in the lawful way] means, let him look at the life of the Prophet, peace be upon him, for he used to be gentle on himself, he would joke, he would spend time with women, … he would choose attractive women, he would allow people to chill water for him, he would choose cold water to drink, and he would choose the best of morsels, such as ribs, forelegs and pastries.
All of these are ways of being gentle on one’s ride when traveling on the road. As for the ride which is worn out by whipping, it is likely that it will not be able to complete the journey.
54
When a preacher does not act upon his own knowledge, what he preaches will fall off people’s hearts the way water falls off a rock.
55
Take account of yourself with every glance, utterance, and step, for you are responsible for all of these and will be taken to account for them.
56
I was created with a degree of determination and energy that seeks the utmost of everything. I reached old age but have not reached what I hoped for, so that I started to pray for the extension of my life, and the strengthening of my body, and the attaining of my goals.
57
Habits and customs did not think kindly of me, saying that what I wanted was against custom. But I said that I seek what goes beyond custom, what is extraordinary.
58
How few are those who purely dedicate their deeds to God, glory to Him! Most people like what is visible of their acts of worship. Sufyan al-Thawri used to say, “I have never relied on my visible good deeds [as means of salvation].”
59
Today, the desire for mastery over others has become greater than all other desires. But mastery is not accomplished except until the heart has become heedless, and has started to be enamored of people, and has started to forget the truth, it is at that point that it seeks mastery over the people of the world.
60
The Sultan[27] asked to be given the title of “King of Kings” and a number of Islamic scholars allowed it, but al-Māwardī[28] forbad it, and it happened that he achieved a great status in the Sultan’s eyes. And many people have had similar stories.
61
It is necessary for one to purify their intentions toward the obedience of the Creator, even if the creation are angered by this.
62
Showing enmity toward enemies is a show of weakness and fear. It is wiser to show kindness and courtesy toward enemies until this causes an end of their enmity, and if that does not happen, courtesy can be a cause for blocking any harm that may come from them, and among them will be those who will feel ashamed of the courtesy they are shown, and this will change their heart.
There were among the pious predecessors those who, when they heard someone had spoken of them in abusive terms, would send them presents.
63
Hiding the hardships you suffer is a form of keeping your own secrets, because making your hardships public would please those who dislike you, and would pain those who love you.
64
Perhaps a person will share a secret with a spouse or friend, and becomes a hostage because of this, so that they do not dare to divorce the spouse, or leave the friend, fearing that their secret would be made public.
The wise person is the one who does not treat people except according to what is made public, so that they are not troubled by the fear of having their secrets shared, and so that if they break off their relationship with a spouse, friend or servant, none of them would be able to speak of them in terms they would dislike.
65
There is no true enjoyment of solitude except for the scholar or the ascetic, for they both know the purpose of solitude.
66
I seek God’s protection from a scholar who spends all of his time mingling with people, especially the one who constantly keeps the company of the rich and powerful, so that he acquires and acquires, and tricks and tricks, until he earns nothing of the worldly life except that some of his faith departs because of it.
67
How can a person claim to have dignity and self-respect if they lower themselves to evildoers?[29]
68
How foolish is the person who does not know when death will come for him, yet does not prepare for meeting it!
69
When a person reaches forty, they should make their top priority the gathering of provisions for the afterlife.
70
What pleasure is there in the seeking of wealth beyond what one needs? It enslaves its keeper, so that he is constantly anxious about it, and if it is little, it causes him to desire more and more.
71
Al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī says: “People appear similar during times of ease. But when hardship and trials arrive, that is when their true nature becomes apparent.”
72
If it was not for engaging in some form of heedlessness, scholars would not have been able to write, or to memorize knowledge, or to write down hadith. Because if one’s thought is, “Perhaps I will die today,” then how can he write, or listen to lectures?
Do not let people’s heedlessness of death, their lack of remembrance of it the way it deserves to be remembered, alarm you into going to extremes in doing these yourself, for a mild heedlessness of it is a blessing from God, glory to Him, and by this the matters of the worldly life, and the matters of faith, are carried out and reformed.
The type of heedlessness that deserves criticism is the one whose strength causes going to extremes in pleasure-seeking, ignoring the duty of taking account of oneself, and wasting time without increasing one’s provisions for the afterlife, and perhaps the heedlessness becomes so strong that it causes one to fall into sin.
73
But if heedlessness is mild, it is like salt on food, which one cannot do without. But if it is too much, the food becomes inedible. Heedlessness is a good thing if it is by the amount we have discussed, and if it goes beyond that, it is worthy of censure.
Understand what I said, and do not say, “That person is so pious he does not sleep at night,” and “that person is so heedless he gets a full night of sleep.” For a heedlessness that ensures the good of the body and the heart should not be criticized.
74
No one loves spending time in social gatherings except a time-waster, because one whose heart is busy with Truth will flee from the creation. When the heart becomes empty of the recognition of Truth, it will fill with the creation, so that it works for their sake and suffers ruin due to riyāʾ [showing off one’s piety] without realizing it.
75
Whoever acts pious for the sake of the creation is in effect worshiping them, although he does not realize it.
76
Whoever is proud is foolish, because regardless of what he is proud of, there are others who have more of it then he has.
77
The believer must constantly think lowly of himself. It was said to ʿUmar bin ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz[30], may God be pleased with him, “Should we bury you in the same place as the Prophet, peace be upon him, when you die?” He said, “I would rather commit every sin other than shirk [polytheism] than to consider myself worthy of that.”
78
I do not know of anyone who lived more exalted and enjoyable lives than the truly pious scholars.
79
Whoever wants permanent health, permanent support against his enemies, and permanent safety and security without trials, then he has not understood his duties, nor has he understood submission.
Did not the Prophet, peace be upon him, triumph on the Day of Badr, only to have the events of the Day of Uḥud happen to him? Was he not blocked from the House, only to dominate after that?[31]
80
It is necessary for us to suffer good and bad. The good necessitates that we show thankfulness and the bad that we supplicate. If our supplication is not answered, this means that it is intended that the test should finish, and for one to humbly submit to the decree.
This is where true faith shows itself. It is in submission and acceptance that the gems among men become apparent.
81
If contentment [toward hardship] is achieved internally and externally, then that is the sign of a person whose faith is complete. And if one feels consternation toward the hardship, rather than the One Who decreed it, then it is part of our nature to dislike that which hurts. This, however, shows a lack of maʿrifa [spiritual wisdom]. And if one’s consternation advances to such a degree that one complains with the tongue, then that is how the ignorant behave.
82
The sins that are punished most quickly are the ones that are not due to overwhelming desire, but are an act of obstinacy and rebellion [against God].[32]
83
Be very wary of the consequences of sins, and be very hasty in seeking to erase them by returning to God, because sins have evil and ugly consequences, whether they come quickly, or whether they accumulate and befall you all at once.
84
Know that the human is created for a tremendously important matter, and that he is required to seek knowledge of his Creator through evidence. It is not sufficient for him to copy others.
85
When Imam Aḥmad ibn Ḥanbal decided to never again hope to be supported by people’s charity and gifts, his abilities increased, and his fame spread.
86
We were created to live with the Creator, knowing Him, conversing with Him and seeing Him in everlasting habitation [in the afterlife]. Our existence starts in the worldly life, because it is like a school in which we learn writing and good manners, so that like children, we will be well-formed and good-mannered once we pass the grades.[33]
87
The closeness of the believers to the Creator [in the afterlife] is by the degree of their heedfulness in the worldly life.
88
It is necessary for the seeker of knowledge to purify his intentions, because losing one’s sincerity will cause one’s deeds to be rejected. He must exert himself in spending time with the scholars, and in researching the different opinions, and in reading books, because there is not a book that does not contain something of benefit.
89
Jealousy overcame some people so that they left the truth even after recognizing it. Umayya bin Abī al-Ṣalt[34] admitted to the truth of the prophethood of Prophet Muhammad and went to visit him. But he came back to his people saying, “I will not believe in a prophet who is not from [the tribe of] Thaqīf.”
90
The true servant of God is the one who accepts whatever the Creator decrees. If he asks of Him and He answers, he considers that a privilege granted by Him, and if he is denied, he considers that an act of the Master doing what He wills toward His subjects, so that there is no complaint in his heart toward his condition.
91
There is no such thing as permanent joy in this life, except for the mystic who has busied himself with pleasing his Beloved, and with preparations for departure toward Him, so that when he experiences rest and joy in this life, he spends them in his efforts to seek the afterlife, and if he experiences hardship, he uses his patience as a means of acquiring the rewards of the afterlife, so that he is content with whatever befalls him, seeing it all as the Creator’s decrees, and knowing that it is all from His will.
92
Whoever ardently seeks worldly desires, he will suffer the anxiety of not accomplishing it, and will suffer bitterness due to the distance of that which he desires. If he suffers poverty, his heart changes, if he suffers subjugation, it changes, and these are due to the fact that he has attached himself to the achievement of his worldly goals and desires.
93
If you fall into a hardship that is difficult to remove, you have no recourse except supplication and taking refuge in God, after repenting from your sins, because whenever you stray, this requires punishment, and when you stop your straying by repenting to God, the reason for the hardship is removed.
94
If you repent and supplicate but are not answered, reflect on your condition, for perhaps your repentance has not been realized, therefore work toward completing it. Then supplicate, and do not tire of supplication, for perhaps it is in your best interest for the answer to be delayed, or for it not to be answered. In this way you accumulate rewards, and you will be answered through that which benefits you, and perhaps it is to your benefit that you do not get what you seek, but are given something better that replaces it.
95
If Satan comes and says, “See how much you supplicate and yet are not answered!” say, “I supplicate as an act of worship, and I have faith that the answer will come, but perhaps it is delayed for a beneficial purpose, and if the thing that I desire through my supplication is not realized, what will be realized is true servitude and submission toward God.”
96
Whenever a worshiper looks to be admired for his worship, he approaches a state of shirk, for he should rather care about the opinion of the One he is meant to be working for. To be sincere, it is necessary that one should not in any way expect or look forward to people’s admiration, for [people’s admiration] is acquired not by seeking it, but by disliking it.
97
Humans should know that their deeds will become known to people as a whole, even if people do not see them [carry out individual good deeds]. Hearts will see good in good people, even if they do not observe them [when they are performing their good deeds].
98
As for the one who seeks people’s admiration by his deeds, then his life has gone to waste, for he will be rejected both by the Creator and the creation, for their hearts will turn away from him. In this way both his deeds and his life are wasted.
99
It is necessary for a person to prepare for their old age by [seeking] wealth, out of cautiousness of the possibility that they may end up poor and needy when their ability to earn has waned. It is better for one to leave behind wealth for his enemy than to become needy toward his friend. He should not be swayed by the foolish ones who speak against wealth, for most of them are weak-minded and ignorant ones who have decided to choose the way of reliance on others as a way of ensuring a work-free life, so that they prefer laziness and luxury, and do not have sufficient self-respect and dignity to refuse to take from the charity of others, nor to refuse to beg. Every prophet had a source of income, and so did all of the Companions, and they left much wealth after their deaths. Understand this principle, and do not concern yourself with the words of the ignorant ones.
100
Someone who has knowledge but does not act by it may think, “I will busy myself with knowledge today, and I will act by it tomorrow!” so that he prefers comfort over asceticism, and he delays repentance, and does not shy away from backbiting on others or listening to it, or he acquires money through questionable means and hopes to erase the sin of it through devotion later, forgetting that death may strike suddenly.
101
The wise person is the one who gives each moment its due of what is required of him, so that if death strikes, he is ready for it, and if his life continues, he continues to accumulate good deeds.
102
Imam Aḥmad ibn Ḥanbal said to Imam al-Shāfiʿī’s son: “Your father is among the sixty people I pray for every night close to dawn.”[35]
103
I saw that one of the greatest tricks of the devil is that he surrounds the rich with hopes [of further enrichment], and inspires them to busy themselves with pleasures that block them from the afterlife and the deeds due to it. Once he succeeds in obsessing them with accumulating and seeking wealth, he commands them to guard their wealth with stinginess.
104
The [pious] were patient when they lacked, but they did not refrain from earning what is good and wholesome, nor from accepting to take that which is lawfully within their grasp. Abū Bakr, may God be pleased with him, used to go on journeys as a merchant during the Prophet’s career, peace be upon him.
105
Do not be frightened by those narrations that recommend hunger, for their purpose is either to encourage one to fast, or to encourage one to not eat more than is sufficient. As for permanently reducing one’s portions so that it affects one’s strength, this is not permissible.
There is also among those worthy of censure those who recommend giving up meat, when the Prophet, peace be upon, used to wish to have it every day.
… Do not say that Bishr [al-Hāfī] said this, and Ibrāhīm bin Adham[36] said that, for the one who uses evidence from the Prophet, peace be upon him, and his Companions, has stronger support for what he says.
106
The Prophet, peace be upon him, says, “It is better for you to leave your inheritors in a state of wealth and needlessness [after your death] than to leave them in a state of neediness, having to beg people.”[37]
107
Aḥmad ibn Ḥanbal said, “Is there any point to knowledge except the good deeds that happen as a consequence of it?”
108
Umm al-Dardāʾ[38] said to a man, “Have you acted by the knowledge you have acquired?” He said, “No.” She said, “Why do you then add to God’s reasons for punishing you?”
109
Perhaps someone lets their sight run amok[39], and this causes them to be prohibited [by God] from acquiring insight. Or they let their tongue run amok, and this causes them to be prohibited from having a pure heart. Or they give preference to a questionable source of income, so that their private life is darkened, and it causes them to be prohibited from performing qiyām, or experiencing the joy of intimate conversation with God, or other than this. This is a matter well-known to those used to taking account of themselves.
110
Perhaps God will cause something to befall someone that will disgrace them in front of the creation as a recompense for sins they have committed in private.
111
The hearts of people will know the condition of a person and will love him or dislike him, criticize him or praise him, according to what is between that person and God, glory to Him.
112
Whenever someone tries to mend what is between him and the creation, without trying to mend what is between him and God, he will achieve the opposite of that which he seeks.
113
ʿUmar bin ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz said, “If you see me transgress against the truth, take hold of my clothes and shake me, and say, ‘What is wrong with you, O Umar?’”
114
Abū Bakr al-Marrūdhī[40] said, “I heard that Aḥmad ibn Ḥanbal was seeking to get married, so I told him, ‘Ibn Adham[41] said that…’ but he did not let me finish, saying in a loud voice, “Remember the condition of the Prophet, peace be upon him, and his Companions. You want me to follow the subsidiary ways?”[42]
115
A man came to al-Ḥasan [al-Baṣrī] saying, “I have a neighbor who does not eat fālūdeh[43].” He said, “Why?” The man said, “He says there is no way he can show sufficient gratitude to God for it.”[44] Al- Ḥasan said, “Your neighbor is ignorant, for is it possible for him to ever show sufficient gratitude for a glass of cold water?”
116
The Prophet, peace be upon him, says, “The servant is in a good state as long he does not become impatient, saying, ‘I prayed but was not answered.’”[45]
117
Contentment is one of the fruits of spiritual knowledge. When you know Him, you will be content with His decrees.
118
It is not permissible for anyone to force others to carry burdens that he himself chooses to carry.
119
One does not become obsessed with romantic love toward another person except one who is stagnant spiritually. … No one stays in the rank of erotic love, which causes one to see the other person as perfect, and blinds them to their faults, except one who is standing still.[46]
As for those who are not content with staying in an imperfect state spiritually, they always work to raise their rank, and no trap catches them, and if they find themselves loving someone, it does not become a musta’thar[47] form of love.
120
Rābiʿa[48] says, “I love a Beloved by Whose love I do not become imperfect, while you people love ones in whose love is the cause of imperfection and fault.”
121
The character of the heedful always works to raise itself spiritually, so that it does not become enamored of the love of an attractive person, and the reason that their character raises above this type of love is that they either see the faults and shortcomings in that person, or they seek and desire what is more important than the person.
122
The best of things is to increase one’s knowledge, for when someone’s knowledge is restricted and he considers it sufficient, his thinking becomes autocratic and arbitrary, and his high opinion of himself prevents him from benefiting by the knowledge he has.
123
No one can claim to know Him except one who fears Him. The one who feels safe from Him does not know Him.
124
Among the ascetics there are heedless ones who almost believe they are close friends and confidantes of God. Perhaps God’s blessings and bounty has reached them and this has made them think He is giving them preferential treatment, forgetting that God can bestow as a test only to take away.
125
Taste the sweetness of blocking yourself from engaging in what is forbidden, for this is a tree that bears the fruit of honor in this world and high status in the afterlife. When your thirst for what you desire intensifies, extend the hands of supplication toward the One Who has the ability to completely alleviate all thirsts.
126
The Messenger of God, peace be upon him, says, “None of you will be saved by his deeds.” They said, “Not even you?” He said, “Not even me, unless God covers me in His mercy.”
127
Mālik ibn Dīnār said, “Let it be said to one whose good deed is not sincere: Do not tire yourself.”
128
We have seen so many who wear coarse clothing, and show off their devotion to God, yet no one turns to them, and others who wear good clothing, and who smile, and the hearts love them.
129
The worldly life has been created as a place of testing. The wise person should fully habituate himself to patience.
130
The sign of the sincere person is that his private life is the same as his public life, and perhaps he smiles and is easygoing among people, so that they do not call him an ascetic, for Ibn Sīrīn[49] used to laugh during the day, but once the night came, he would weep[50] as if the people of his village had all been slaughtered.
131
The prison guard said to Aḥmad ibn Ḥanbal [when he had been imprisoned by the Abbasid Inquisition for his beliefs], “Am I of those who help the evildoers?’[51] He said, “No, you are of the evildoers. The helpers of the evildoers are those who help you in any matter.”
132
I have seen people speak harshly against envy, and exaggerate in this, and say that no one feels envy except an evil person. … But I have seen that it is not as they say. Humans do not like to see anyone rise above them, so that if he sees his friend ascend in status, it affects him, and he wishes that this had not happened, or that he had acquired what his friend had acquired, so that the friend would not be his better.
This is part of human nature, and there is no reason to condemn it. What should be condemned instead is when one puts their envy into action, either by word or deed. … [Al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī says,] “There is not any among humanity who has been created without the instinct for envy. Whoever does not go beyond this instinct, by turning their envy into words and deeds, has not sinned.”
133
Create for yourself treasures of piety through the fear of God and you will find their effects on your life down the road.
134
I have studied the Tābiʿūn and those after them, and I have not found anyone more blessed with perfection than Saʿīd ibn al-Musayyib[52], Sufyān al-Thawrī, al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī and Aḥmad ibn Ḥanbal.
135
Never become impatient if the hardship continues for long, and never tire of supplication. You are being tested by the hardship, and your patience and supplication are acts of worship, therefore never despair of God’s mercy, even if it the hardship is long in duration.
136
Bishr al-Hāfī was visited by some people who saw that there was not a rug in his house [to sit on]. They asked him, “Doesn’t it hurt you [to have nothing soft to sit on]?” He said, “This will pass.”
137
Whenever one’s fear of God is true, one finds all that is good. The true fearer of God does not act pious so that people can see him, and he does not expose himself to that which can harm his faith.
138
I never tire of reading books. If I see a book I have not seen before, it is as if I have found a treasure.
139
Whoever is watchful toward God’s boundaries will be under His watchful care and protection.
140
Is there anyone who has gone close to God and not found that with Him is everything that they need and desire?
141
When it comes to the rulers, study ʿUmar ibn al-Khaṭṭāb and ʿUmar bin ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz, may God be pleased with them. When it comes to the scholars, study Aḥmad ibn Ḥanbal, may God have mercy on him. When it comes to ascetics, study Uways al-Qarnī[53], for these people embody what it is to work hard and be industrious in the way of God, and they understood the purpose of existence in this world.
142
When you see in yourself a weakness, seek help from al-Munʿim [the Bestower], and if you see laziness in yourself, take refuge in al-Muwaffiq [the Giver of Success]. You will not acquire a good thing except through obedience toward Him, and no good passes you by except through disobedience toward Him.
143
The way of the Prophet, peace be upon him, and his Companions was not like the way of the ascetics today, for he used to laugh, joke, choose attractive women as his wives and race with ʿĀʾisha, may God be pleased with her, and he used to eat meat and liked sweet pastries and chilled water, and this is also the way of his Companions.
144
One cannot achieve the highest of ranks except through uniting knowledge and deeds.
145
[In my youth] I never used to abandon the side of anyone who would retell narrations or give spiritual advice, and no stranger [among the scholars and teachers] would come to town except that I would go to his gatherings [to learn from him].146
When true fear of God is realized in your heart, all good things will come to you.
147
Never busy yourself completely with worship, abandoning the seeking of knowledge, for many of the Sufi ascetics went astray from the path of guidance because they acted without knowledge.
148
Have two sets of clothes to wear that do not bring you fame among the people of the worldly life [by their high quality and expensiveness], and that do not bring you fame among the ascetics [by how tattered and of poor quality they are].
149
No one takes pleasure from disobeying God except one who has become intoxicated on heedlessness.
150
[The one who follows the Quran and the Sunna] will not live a life of suffering. This is illustrated by His saying, glory to Him: “Whosoever fears God, God will create for him a way out.”[54] If you see them suffer, then surely there is for them in recompense that which will turn any bitter drink into honey.151
I reflected on a strange matter, and an elegant principle, which is the way tests pour down on a believer, and a display of pleasures are presented to him, at a time when it is within his power to engage in them, especially pleasures that cost him no effort, such as a willing lover in a safe and private place. So I thought, glory to God! It is by this that faith becomes apparent, not by merely performing two units of prayer. And by God, it is only because of passing this test that Yūsuf’s station was elevated and he achieved his great success. Reflect on what his situation would have been if he had succumbed to desire, what kind of person would he have been, and what kind of status would he have had then?
152
Bayazid Bastami[55], may God have mercy on him, said: “I continued to drive my ego toward God, glory to Him, while it continued to cry out [out of unwillingness], until a time came when I would drive it toward God and it would laugh with joy.”
153
There is not a more difficult duty than patience toward what God declares for us, and there is not a worthier duty than contentment toward His declarations. As for patience, it is a farḍ [religious obligation], while contentment is a faḍl [a sign of spiritual superiority].
154
I reflected upon the earth and those who are in it. I saw that its ruin was greater than its restoration, and I looked into the inhabited parts of it, and saw that the unbelievers have rule over most of it, and saw that the people of Islam on the earth are few in comparison to the unbelievers. I reflected upon the Muslims and saw that the seeking of wealth had occupied most of them from seeking al-Rāziq [the Provider of Sustenance], and it had blocked them from the knowledge that would have led them to Him.
155
I reflected upon the condition of most of the religious scholars and ascetics, and I saw that many of them live in a state of divine punishment that they do not sense, and much of this is due to their seeking to have power over others.
156
I reflected upon the envy that exists among scholars, and saw that its source is the love of the worldly life, because the scholars of the afterlife engage in love and do not envy others. What separates the two groups is that the scholars of the worldly life seek power and leadership in it, and they love to accumulate wealth and praise, while the scholars of the afterlife live in seclusion from these things, they fear them and have mercy toward those who are being tested by them.
157
Whenever someone’s private life is wholesome, the scent of his merit spreads, and the hearts of others enjoy the perfume of his goodness. I beseech you by God to rectify your private matters, for there is no benefit in having a wholesome appearance if one’s private life is corrupt.
158
Something that experience of the ages has told me: One should never display animosity toward another person if it can be helped, for maybe they will have a need for that person one day, regardless of that person’s wealth and status.
159
Whoever wants a continuation of his safety and good condition in life must fear God, glory to Him. No one engages in something that goes against the fear of God, no matter how small, except that they will find their punishment sooner or later.
160
It is an arrogant thing to sin, see good things happen to you, and think that you have been forgiven, forgetting “Whoever does evil will be punished for it.”[56] Perhaps your ego says, “He forgives, so I must have been forgiven”. There is no doubt that He forgives, but He forgives whomever He wants.
161
Know that sins have evil effects whose bitterness is many times greater than the sweetness of the sin.
162
It is a strange thing that you should insist on seeking something you desire, and that whenever that thing is further blocked from you, your seeking for it only increases. You forget that it is blocked from you for one of two reasons; either for your own good, because perhaps there is harm in it, or because of your sins, because a companion of sin is going to be distant from God’s responding to their wishes and prayers. Purify the way of response from the dirt of sins, and reflect on the thing you seek, does it benefit your faith, or is it merely the desire of your ego?
163
Our attachment to the worldly life is from arrogance, and there is no greater affliction than this. If it was not for attachment to the worldly life, there would be no neglecting of our duties. A sinner prioritizes sins and delays repentance due their attachment to the worldly life and their devotion to their ego’s desires. They forget to return to God because of their attachment to the worldly life. If you cannot reduce your attachment, then do the deeds of one who has reduced their attachment. Do not let a day pass except that you look into what has passed throughout your day. If you find faults or violations in conduct, erase them with repentance and the seeking of God’s forgiveness.
164
By the amount that you honor God, glory to Him, He will honor you, and by the amount that you magnify His greatness in your esteem and increase your respect for Him, He will magnify your status and the respect you receive.
165
I have seen one who spent his life in the seeking of knowledge until he grew old and violated the bounds [by sinning], so that he lost his status and respect among the people. They would not go to him despite his great knowledge and his ability to come up with solutions. And I have seen one who was conscious of God, glory to Him, in his youth, and despite his shortcomings in knowledge compared to that scholar, God magnified his status in the hearts of people until they became attached to him, and they would praise him even for virtues he did not possess.
166
The wise one is he who stays by the side of God, glory to Him, even if it angers the creation. Whoever stays by the side of the creation and neglects the rights of the Creator, God will turn the heart of the one he wanted to please so that they are angered and resentful toward him instead. Al-Maʾmūn[57] told one of his companions: “Do not disobey God in your obedience of me, lest He should make me despotic over you.”
167
I have seen that many people are not able to keep their own secrets, and if their secrets become public, they blame the one who made it public. They themselves were incapable of keeping it, so how can they blame others for acting the same way?
168
If Yūsuf had not undergone suffering, peace be upon him, he would not have been addressed by “O man of truth”[58].
169
People who show off their faith are very strange things. If they show off by their knowledge, then the scholars are ahead of them, and if it is by their devotion to worship, then the worshipers are ahead of them, and if it is by their wealth, wealth by itself does not bring any religious virtue.
170
Whoever wants to understand the essence of contentment toward God, glory to Him, and His actions, and to know its source, then he should think of the life and times of the Prophet, peace and blessings of God upon him. When his knowledge of the Creator was perfected, glory to Him, he saw that the Creator is a king, and king has the right to do as he wills with his subjects.
171
The rational person should aim for the farthest goal they are able to achieve. If it was possible for humans to ascend into the heavens, it would have been considered the grossest deficiency for someone to be content with living on Earth.
172
Whoever is blessed with a good heart and the ability to take pleasure from intimate conversation with God should carefully observe his own condition and guard it from change, the condition persists by the amount that the fear of God persists.
173
Do not befriend a fāsiq [one who believes in God but freely disobeys Him], for one who betrays his first Giver of blessings is not going to be loyal toward you.
174
I have seen many people who are careful to avoid a spray of ritually unclean water yet they do not guard themselves from backbiting, or who give much in charity yet do not mind usurious transactions, or who pray tahajjud at night yet delay the obligatory prayers beyond their appointed time.
175
O one whose hopes are in the worldly life, your life has been wasted.
176
Know that God, glory to Him, has formulated the formal prayers and has preferred them over the other acts of worship. A person who appreciates their rank, desires their rewards and fears God’s punishment if they are abandoned will observe them duly. This is how a believer acts. Only a person of deficient faith is negligent toward the prayers.
177
As long as desires exist, one must never feel safe from the possibility of the heart succumbing to them.
178
Ibn ʿAbbās[59] says that God, glory to Him, does not mention hawā [the desires of the ego] in any place in His Book except that He condemns it. Al-Shaʿbī[60] says that it is named hawā because it causes one to fall down.[61]
179
Be wary of the lustful glance, for it is the cause of disease [in one’s faith], and its cure at its initiation is easy, but if it is repeated, its evil is empowered and its cure becomes difficult.
180
It is narrated that Maymūn bin Mahrān[62] said, “There are two forms of remembrance. The first one is to remember Him by the tongue, which is good. Better than this is to remember God when one is about to sin.”
181
No one has attained [spiritual] success except by going against their ego’s desires, and no one has suffered [spiritual] failure except by preferring the worldly life over the afterlife.
182
The seeking of the virtues is the ultimate goal of the strivers in the way of God. The virtues differ. There are those who consider the virtues to be in asceticism, others consider them to be in busying oneself with worship. The truth is that perfect virtue is in uniting knowledge and action. If they are both acquired, they uplift the person toward having true knowledge of the Creator, glory to Him, and they move him toward loving Him, fearing Him and longing for Him. This is the ultimate goal.
183
Those who are addicted to pleasures end up in a state where they no longer take pleasure from that which they are addicted to, without being able to give it up.
184
Muʿāwiya[63] said: “True manliness is [the ability] to give up pleasures and to go against one’s desires.”
185
I heard a Bedouin say, “If you have difficulty in choosing between two things, not knowing which one is the wiser choice, then go against the one that is preferred by your ego’s desires, because most mistakes that one makes are due to following the ego’s desires.”
186
A man said to al-Ḥasan [al-Baṣrī], “What is the best type of jihād?” He said, “To wage jihād against your ego’s desires.”
187
Al-Fuḍayl bin ʿIyāḍ[64] said, “Whoever is ruled by his ego’s desires, the means of having a blessed kind of success in life will be cut off from him.”
188
Isḥāq al-Mawṣli[65] said that al-Muʿtaṣim[66] said to him, “O Isḥāq, if the ego’s desires overcome you, sound opinion will depart from you.”
189
Bishr bin al-Ḥārith[67] said, “You will not find sweetness of worship until you place between you and your ego’s desires a barrier of steel.”
190
It was said to al-Murtaʿish[68] that there is a person who can walk on water. He said, “To be able to go against the ego’s desires is a greater achievement than walking on water.”
191
Abū ʿAlī al-Nisābūrī [69] said, “Whoever attains dominion over his ego’s desires in his youth, God will grant him dominion in his old age, as happened to Yusuf, peace be upon him.”
192
Al-Ḥasan [al-Baṣrī] said, “Those who have the easiest time on the Day of Judgment are those who take themselves to account for God’s sake in the worldly life.”
193
ʿUmar bin ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz said, “The best good deeds are those that one has to force the ego to perform.”
194
Sirrī Saqṭī[70] said, “The greatest proof of nobility is in your ability to overcome your ego’s desires.”
195
Abū Bakr ibn Ḍarīr al-Muqrī[71] said, “I fought my ego’s desires until my desire became the fighting of the ego’s desires.”
196
Yaḥyā bin Muʿādh[72] said, “The sickness of the body is from disease, and the sickness of the heart is from sins. The same way that the body cannot enjoy the pleasure of food when it is sick, the heart cannot enjoy the pleasure of worship when it is in a state of sin.”[73]
197
Ibrāhīm al-Khawwāṣ[74] said, “The healing of the heart is by five things; the reading of the Quran with reflection, the emptiness of the stomach [fasting and avoidance of overeating], qiyām, the humbling of oneself at dawn, and the companionship of the pious.”
198
Al-Ḥasan [al-Baṣrī] said, “No servant disobeys God except that God, glory to Him, will cause him some form of humiliation and disgrace.”
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The ego has a natural propensity to follow its desires, and because of that it is in need of being striven against and repulsed. Whenever the ego’s desires are not repulsed, the mind charges toward them …
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Muḥammad bin Kaʿb[75] said, “No one worships God by something more beloved to Him than the abandoning of sins.”
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Bishr al-Hāfī said, “When the servant sins, God will prohibit him from carrying out qiyām.”
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When something in your life goes wrong, try to remember a sin that brought it about.
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Abu ʿAlī al-Rudhbārī[76] said, “It is from arrogance to commit a minor sin, see something good happen in your life, and neglect repentance thinking that your minor sins are automatically forgiven.”
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Know that punishments for sins differ. Sometimes they come quickly, sometimes they are delayed. Sometimes their effects are visible, other times they are hidden. The most extreme punishment is the one that the punished cannot perceive, and the worst of it is through the removal of faith and knowledge, without which the heart dies, and another one is the removal of the pleasure of supplication toward God, and another is being given energy and motivation to carry out sins.
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Yaḥyā bin Muʿādh said, “The thing that prevents people from true repentance is attachment to the worldly life.”
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Mujāhid bin Jabr[77] says regarding the verse “for the one who fears the stature of His lord are two gardens”[78], “It refers to a person who, when he intends to sin, remembers the stature of his Lord and stops himself from committing it.”
[1] Abū Manṣūr Mawhūb al-Jawālīqī (1074 – 1144 CE), a famous linguist and authority on the Arabic language and literature.
[2] Earlier in the passage he mentions ʿAbd al-Wahhāb al-Anmāṭī, whom he praises for his intolerance toward backbiting in his learning circles, the fact that he refused to take payment for his advice while other scholars did, and the fact that his heart was so soft and devoted to God that many hadith narrations would bring tears to his eyes.
[3] Referring to the fact that knowledge that is not acted by will be used as evidence against a person on the Day of Judgment.
[4] Referring to those who use questionable means to earn money, even if those means are not clearly prohibited.
[5] Referring to the story mentioned in the Quran, verses 18:60-82.
[6] The Quran, verse 2:197. According to Bukhari 1523 and other narrations, this verse came down as a response to certain Yemenis who would set out on the pilgrimage to Mecca without bringing any provision, so that once they were in Mecca they had to beg to sustain themselves.
[7] Ibn al-Jawzī’s opinion is that seekers of knowledge should not choose to be poor if they can help it, for it leads to neediness toward others, which leads to moral hazards. He recommends that they should seek to become financially independent through the seeking of wealth in lawful ways, until they have sufficient wealth to live a dignified existence.
[8] Meaning that people will not remember them with love and awe, but will only remember them for their talents.
[9] One of the great Companions of the Prophet, peace be upon him and his Companions. Died in 32 AH.
[10] These are well-known ascetics.
[11] Washing a book was a way of destroying it by causing the ink to run off the pages.
[12] The Quran, verse 65:2.
[13] The Quran, verse 65:3.
[14] This means that while there were technical arguments and loopholes to justify it, his conscience objected to it.
[15] A great early scholar and hadith collector of Medina and founder of the Mālikī school of jurisprudence (died 795 CE).
[16] 8th century CE ascetic.
[17] He left it there so that the sun would warm it up.
[18] Sufyān al-Thawrī (715 – 778 CE). He was a famous ascetic and one of the most important and trusted hadith transmitters.
[19] ʿAbd-Allāh ibn al-Mubārak (726 – 797 CE), a great hadith scholar and ascetic.
[20] The generation after the Companions.
[21] Meaning that he sought to hear, write down and memorize hadith narrations in scholars’ gatherings.
[22] A small river or canal in Baghdad.
[23] It was too hard and dry to swallow without water.
[24] Bishr al-Ḥāfī (Bishr the Barefoot, 767 – 750 CE), one of the most famous early ascetics in Islam.
[25] Maʿrūf al-Karkhī (died about 820 CE), one of the most important saints of early Sufism, he was a Christian who converted to Islam, likely of Persian origin.
[26] He recounts the facts that followed above as an illustration of what a true follower of the Prophet, peace be upon him, can achieve by combining opposites in their lives and balancing them with one another.
[27] Referring to Jalāl al-Dawla (died 1044 CE), the Buyid warlord who controlled Baghdad during the tenure of the caliph al-Qāʾim bi-Llāh. He had requested the caliph to give him this title. Al-Māwardī issued a fatwa against it.
[28] Abū l-Ḥasan ʿAlī al-Māwardī (972 – 1058 CE), famous jurist belonging to the Shāfiʿī school.
[29] This is a reference to scholars who befriended the rich and powerful out of their desire for material gain.
[30] Also known as Umar II (682 – 720 CE), the Umayyad caliph from 717 to 720, widely admired as the most pious of the caliphs that came after the first 4 to succeed the Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him and his Companions and Successors.
[31] In the year 6 AH, the Prophet, peace be upon him, and his followers attempted to carry out the pilgrimage to Mecca, but the pagans prevented them. Two years later the Conquest of Mecca by the Muslims took place, in which the Muslims acquired the city without a battle, and which led to the pagans converting to Islam.
[32] This refers to sins committed when one’s mental faculties are functioning normally and they are not under any overwhelming desire.
[33] Ibn al-Jawzī is likening the worldly life to a school that prepares humans for living in the presence of the Creator in the afterlife.
[34] A first-rate pre-Islamic poet who mentions the afterlife often in his poetry, from the tribe of Thaqīf. He died in 5 AH.
[35] Aḥmad ibn Ḥanbal is the founder of the Ḥanbalī school of jurisprudence while Imam al-Shāfiʿī is the founder of the Shāfiʿī school of jurisprudence. It is sometimes forgotten that the founders of these differing schools had great admiration and even love for one another.
[36] An early ascetic and Sufi saint (died about 782 CE).
[37] Narrated in Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī (no. 5354 – book 69, narration 4) and Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim (narration 1628 g).
[38] Hujayma bint Ḥuyayy Umm al-Dardā. A famous ascetic of the Tābiʿūn generation, wife of the Companion Abū al-Dardāʾ (see quote no. 24). Died in the year 81 AH. It is uncertain whether she ever met the Prophet, peace be upon him, for this reason she is not considered a Companion.
[39] Observing what is unlawful to observe.
[40] An Iranian jurist and hadith scholar who was a disciple of Aḥmad ibn Ḥanbal. Died 888 CE.
[41] Ibrāhīm ibn Adham, the famous ascetic.
[42] Abū Bakr al-Marrūdhī was probably about to mention a saying of the ascetic mentioning celibacy as superior to marriage. Aḥmad ibn Ḥanbal is saying that al-Marrūdhī should not act as if it is preferable to follow a minority view that is different from the way of the Prophet, peace be upon him, and his Companions.
[43] A traditional Iranian dessert made of a type of noodle, sugar and rose water.
[44] Meaning that he considers it so tasty that he feels humans are unworthy of eating it, since they can never thank God enough for it.
[45] Narrated in the collections of Aḥmad, Abū Yaʾlā and Abū Nuʾaym. Narrations with very close meanings are also present in Ṣaḥīḥ Bukhārī, al-Muwaṭṭaʾ and others.
[46] One who is content with their current level of spirituality and who does not constantly work to seek knowledge and to increase their rank before God.
[47] The obsessive type of love that causes one to ignore their religious duties and break religious and cultural boundaries. It literally means “that which is given preference (over other things).”
[48] Rābiʿa al-Baṣrī, also known as Rābiʿa al- ʿAdawīya (died 801 CE), a famous ascetic and Sufi mystic.
[49] An ascetic and scholar of the Tābiʿūn generation, peer of Imam Mālik.
[50] During his nightly worship.
[51] The guard wished to be told that he was not sinning, since he was “only doing his job”.
[52] An important early scholar and ascetic. Died in 715 CE.
[53] One of the Tābiʿūn and an early ascetic. He died in the Battle of Siffin in 37 AH.
[54] The Quran, verse 65:2.
[55] One of the most famous Sufi saints (died about 849 CE). Of Persian origin.
[56] The Quran, verse 4:123.
[57] Abbasid caliph and son of Harūn al-Rashīd, reigned 813-833 CE.
[58] The Quran, verse 12:46.
[59] ʿAbd-Allāh ibn ʿAbbās (619 – c. 687 CE), a Companion and scholar and son of the Prophet’s cousin ʿAbbās ibn ʿAbd al-Muṭṭalib.
[60] A hadith scholar and jurist of the Tābiʿūn generation (641 – 723 CE).
[61] Hawā, when used as a verb, means “he fell down”, “he collapsed’, among other meanings.
[62] A hadith scholar of the Tābiʿūn generation. Died about the year 734 CE.
[63] Muʿāwiya bin Abī Sufyān (602 – 680 CE), Companion of the Prophet, peace be upon him, and the first Umayyad caliph.
[64] An important early ascetic of Iranian origin. Died 803 CE.
[65] A Persian musician who played in the Abbasid court.
[66] The 8th Abbasid caliph, son of Harun al-Rashid. Reigned 833 – 842 CE.
[67] This is another way of referring to Bishr al-Hāfī, the famous ascetic.
[68] ʿAbd-Allāh bin Muḥammad al-Murtaʿish al-Nisābūrī (died about 939 CE), a scholar and major Sufi sheikh. Of Persian origin.
[69] A 10th century CE hadith scholar (died about 960 CE).
[70] One of the earliest Sufi mystics (died about 865 CE).
[71] A little-known scholar from Herat in Afghanistan. Died in Jerusalem about 1095 CE.
[72] A 9th century scholar, ascetic and Sufi teacher from Rayy (in the area of modern-day Tehran). Died about 871 CE.
[73] “Sickness of the heart” refers to deficiencies in one’s faith and character.
[74] A scholar and Sufi ascetic from Amol on Iran’s Caspian Sea coast. Died about 903 CE.
[75] Muḥammad bin Kaʿb al-Quraẓī, a Jewish convert to Islam, a member of the Tābiʿūn generation and early scholar of the interpretation of the Quran. Died somewhere between 728 and 737 CE.
[76] An ascetic and Sufi saint said to have descended from the Persian emperor Khosrow I. He was from Rudhbar, a town in modern-day Gilan province in Iran. Died somewhere between 933 and 940 CE.
[77] An early scholar of Quranic exegesis. Died about 722 CE.
[78] The Quran, verse 55:46.