Can I ask, how to deal with hatred that comes from my own family members? I feel sad and hurt.
We have to deal with such things the way we deal with all of life’s hardships; by being patient, treating others better than they treat us, and always trying to improve ourselves through reading the Quran, reading other books, watching lectures and any other beneficial acts available to us.
There are no magical solutions in life to most problems; sometimes nothing we do can change things very much, even the Prophet ﷺ suffered for years from problems that God did not solve for him even though God was perfectly capable of solving them. We have to get used to patience in this world, because there will always be problems and suffering, and these things help us grow and become better people.